Monday, June 29, 2015

The Rights of an Innocent Life

The Rights of an Innocent Life
‘Humanity has to do its best for the child’
                                                                               –Declaration of Geneva

Children are the future of mankind. How a society treats its children is the sole determinant of the fate of that society. Until quite recently, there was no legal protection for these young fledglings. Adopted in the United Nations General Assembly in 1989, the United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child (UNCRC) became the first legally binding text for protecting and safeguarding the rights of the child. The UNCRC defines child rights as “specialized human rights that apply to all humans below the age of 18.” Child Rights under the UNCRC include-
Article 12- The child’s rights to express views freely in all matters affecting them.
Article 13- The child’s rights to freedom of expression, which is restricted by law ‘when necessary for the protection of national security, public order…. or public health or morals.’
Article 16- Protection against interference on ‘privacy, family, home… honor or reputation.’
Article 17- Recognition of the importance of media and encouragement of dissemination of material ‘of social and cultural benefit to the child’ and ‘the development of appropriate guidelines for the protection of the child from information and material injurious to his/her well being.’
According to the convention, there are four principles that must be followed while implementing the rights it advocates- Non- discrimination; Best interest of child; Right to life, survival and development and; Respect for the views of the child.
Child rights not only deal with the protection of a minor against any form of abuse but also take into account the need for a suitable environment for a sustainable growth of the child. Since children have an understanding of the world quite distinct from the adults, their needs are also unique and different which make child rights highly suited and heeding to the needs of a typical child. When we talk about child rights, we do not refer to the conventional rights that apply to the adults but to more age appropriate political, social and legal aspects that affect the children. The recent years have seen an uprising wave in the field of child rights with a series of debates and discussions on the need to treat children as ‘natural persons’ respecting their needs and demands.
The original focus of child rights was the prevention of child abuse that majorly included protection during wars, against malnutrition and even from parental abuse. But with the passage of time child rights engulfed a number of other issues spreading its wings into almost every aspect of child life. They started addressing the demands and the needs of the children and moreover made their voices heard across the globe.
Despite so much awareness and legal binding, there are still millions of children who have no access to education, lack the basic necessities for survival, under hazardous conditions and endure assaults on their dignity every single day. Even though there has been significant emancipation in the field of child education, with the introduction of Right To Education (RTE) and the UN led Millennium Development Goals and Education for all, but the other spheres that affect a child have been largely neglected and a large number of United Nations states have failed to fulfill their obligations to the UNCRC. A report by the Unicef said, “We cannot afford to continue at the same pace for the next 25 years. Unless efforts are stepped up, the rights of millions of children will continue to be violated. When we come together to focus commitments, investments and actions on the right interventions, true progress ensues.”
All sorts of violations of child rights have a common characteristic that they are majorly based on tradition, culture, religion or superstition and these sorts of violations are often carried out by the adults in the child’s circle. According to the UNCRC, a child can face violation of his/her rights in two ways- (1)Physical abuse where a child may be subjected to physical violence and beating resulting in fractures and multiple injuries. Violation may also include depriving the child of food and water retarding his growth and development. Physical abuse can even go to the extent of torturing he child, abusing them sexually and even inflicting self harm. (2)Psychological abuse includes depriving the child of his right to education and development and often inculcating negative forms of socialization creating a false and distorted image of the society in the young minds. The most common violation of child rights is in the form of child labor. The International Labor Organization (ILO) estimated an approximate 168 million child laborers in 2013, accounting for about 11% of the world population. It is heartbreaking to see that the hands which should be playing with blocks and dolls and the minds that should be engaged with books are being violated and abused in hazardous industries that are stealing away the innocence of their childhood from them and draining out any potential talent of the young bud.
In spite of a number of limitations to child rights, there is still scope to fight these violations and protect the future of our species. As the UNCRC turned 25 last year, we could see a trajectory of positive changes in its life span. 74% of countries no longer allow children to engage in hazardous activities, however, half of these still allow children to work in jobs that may endanger their lives. This picture clearly signifies that the efforts being undertaken are bearing fruits but are not enough to keep up with the rising pace of new issues spurring in everyday. What we now need to save mankind from its own evils is a co operated action supported not only the governmental bodies, but also people as individuals, Non Governmental Organizations and media houses to bring about a revolution in the lives of those millions of children who continue to suffer in inhuman conditions. Let’s make a difference. Let’s make this world a better place. Let’s do our bit.

- Nikita Tandon

Saturday, June 27, 2015

EMBRACE THE CHANGING ATTITUDE OF A WOMAN



“The thing women have yet to learn is nobody gives you power. You just take it.”
   -- Roseanne Barr

A lot of articles are being published lately in the newspaper and social media regarding crime against women, women empowerment and sexism. One article that caught my attention was ‘Attitudes on Indian women must change’ published in The Hindu dated Monday, June 22, 2015 by Vishakha N. Desai.
The writer emphasized about her meeting with a senior Indian diplomat. He was raised a question about the horrendous treatment of women in India. He went on to intricate that it was not a ‘Country Specific’ problem. Rather US has more number of rapes and sexual assaults than India and he concluded that the media, should stop singling out India on this issue.
Well, this has been the abhorrent attitude by all class of people towards women in our country right from the time when a man thought he was superior to a woman for all the right and wrong reasons. It is still a mystery about who or rather what brought this misconception about women. May be it is engraved in the thought process of man going on from ages and ages.
The actual problem is the attitude of women towards themselves. We women are yet to discover the real power that we possess. We tend to suppress our thoughts to the age old credence that were inculcated into us from the very beginning of our existence. When I was in school, any important circular that sent home was said to be read and signed by my father from my teacher who belonged to very race of womanhood. As a child I always thought my father had an upper hand in the decision making. Consequently it is assumed that women are not capable of making decisions.
Another derisory incident which I personally faced was when I took up a course which involved mechanical subjects. A few of my well-wishers and friends doubted whether I would be able do the mechanical work involved. That was the mentality of my friends who were girls and belonged to this present and so called ‘modern techno savvy’ generation.
We are desperately in need of an embracing change in the attitude of a man and a woman. As rightly said by Roseanne Barr we women have to learn to just take over the power that rightly belongs to us rather than letting someone else to take it over and misuse it. We have to pave our own paths to make our ‘Identity’ strong and intact in our society. We need to change our preferences, empower ourselves to fight the challenges with an infallible attitude and style. Lastly we need to be brave enough to say, “Yes, I am a woman”.

 - Maheshwari M                                                                                           

Thursday, June 25, 2015

Domestic Violence


Domestic Violence is one of the most underrated crimes in India. Our society thinks it is okay to hit your spouse causing him or her injury. Notice how I wrote ‘him or her’. This is because people assume domestic violence means a man hitting his wife or children. But that’s not the case. There have been many cases of men who have suffered from domestic violence from their spouse. Still, the number of cases against women are far greater than against men. Again, may it be man or woman, domestic violence is an unacceptable act and must be stopped under all circumstances.

So why does domestic violence take place? The first and foremost reason is the lack of a stable mind. No man or woman in their right minds would want to intentionally hurt their soul mate. Next, men have this false ego they need to constantly satisfy. Some do it by making their woman happy, others by beating her or getting aggressive with her. This is quite traumatising. The physical scars might go away after sometime, but the damage that’s been done with the mental state and trust of the wife can never be mended. Once again the problem is complaining about such incidents because of social stigmas and family pressure. Marriage is the coming together of two people who decide to spend their lives together always standing up for each other. This doesn’t give anyone the right to treat the other person like heartless punching bags where they can take out their frustration!


Over the years the cases of domestic violence have increased. Best way to fight domestic violence is with the help of NGOs, since they reach the base root level and interact with the people and their problems. They are far more approachable than police stations. They help people suffering from domestic violence and also spread awareness about this so that people can take as many precautions as they can to avoid being in such a situation.

By-
Pashmina Lakhanpal

Dowry System


Dowry system was practiced in many parts of the world earlier, but by now it’s prevalent in only some countries like India. Earlier ‘dowry’ included gifts and jewellery that the groom gave to the bride’s family on marrying her. But over the years this system had a complete reversal, so much so that now it’s very common for groom’s side of the family to harass the bride for dowry.


Almost every other day we find in the news that the girl was harassed or beaten when she failed to fulfil the demands of her greedy husband. Many a times the bride resorts to suicide when she fails to give the promised dowry. Parents save not for their daughter’s marriage but for the dowry they’ll have to pay. Why this unnecessary custom? To take care of the greed of some people, people put their all only to face further demands. As a result dowry was banned in India but simply banning doesn’t mean it’ll stop. Dowry is still a part of most Indian weddings.


So how do we stop this social evil?

It’s not possible to crash each wedding and ask for a list of all the pleasantries exchanged. The best shot we have is spread awareness about dowry exchange and the punishment it fetches with the help of NGOs. We can also set up helpline numbers where the bride may call up and complain about dowry demands or other illegal behaviour by the groom or bride. Make sure the law is enforced. At present in India, the whole family of the groom can be put behind bars over a complaint by the bride. Hence it’s also necessary to make sure false complaints are not entertained by the bride in order to extort money from the groom’s side.


By-
Pashmina Lakhanpal

Rape



Everyone knows about the Nirbhaya Incident which took place on a cold December night in 2012, where a girl in her mid twenties was brutally raped and left to die by six men in a moving bus. This incident highlighted some very messed up issues of our country which need to be tended to as soon as possible.


Rape inflicts not only physical pain but also mental torture upon the female. A rape under no circumstances ever can be justified. Especially in a country like India, where in the 21st century women are still oppressed to a certain limit, it’s essential that crimes like rape be prevented at any cost. This will happen only when each and every individual starts making an effort to bring down crime. Remember, the number of good people is always more than the bad ones. Let’s then come together and unite in the fight against evil.


The very first step is to not only make stricter laws but to make sure they are enforced. Being in a democracy doesn’t mean people have the right to do whatever they want even if it’s illegal. Unless the judiciary starts punishing the guilty without considering caste or creed or status or money, the innocent will keep living in fear and the culprits will roam around free.

Also NGOs should come forward and spread awareness about such issues, right from the very basic level – morals are something a child keeps with him for life. If is made morally sound right from childhood he won’t deviate from it. Because as they say, prevention is better than cure. Why not create a world where everyone lives in peace and harmony with a sense of security. Sure this looks like a far-fetched dream right now, given the present condition of the country. But if everyone starts walking towards it, one day it might just become reality.

Child Marriage



I think it’s safe to say almost everyone has watched the famous sitcom ‘Baalika Vadhu’on the television. It came with a strong message at the end of each episode, but majority of the population watched it for pure entertainment. To those who haven’t watched, Baalika Vadhu was a show on the social evil ‘child marriage’.


Although it has fallen sharply, child marriage still takes place in some backward areas of the country. Parents marry off their children at the mere age of 9-10 years. The bride then goes back to living with her parents. Sometimes the groom may die and the small girl becomes a widow before even leaning what marriage is. Such traditions really need to be stopped completely. At the time of marriage the children have neither reached mental maturity nor are their bodies fully developed for this matrimony. It’s really sad when parents are more concerned about marrying their child at a small age rather than worrying for his/her education and carrier.


The most effective counter to stop child marriages has been to physically stop marriages from taking place after being tipped off from somewhere. Other than that it’s extremely difficult to check on child marriages. That’s where NGOs come in. They work on the grass root level and have a direct interaction with the people. With their help only child marriage can be brought to complete halt. We must also take a pledge that if we come to know about any such activity taking place near our area or to someone we know, we must inform the concerned authorities immediately. After all, it’s only when everyone comes together will the plight of this nation become better.



By-
Pashmina Lakhanpal

Flesh Trade


Flesh Trade is the trading of little girls to middlemen who force them into prostitution for their own gains. It’s a horrific act but sadly it’s taking place throughout India. These so called ‘middlemen’ have established a well connected network using which girls are bought and sold like a commodity. Mostly these girls are from poor family backgrounds and so most end up accepting their fate and learn to live with it. Of those who try to escape, only very few are able to make it all the way. Even then, society doesn’t let them live in peace and look at them as if they are the criminals.


Another problem is a very weak enforcement system. Even if the police manage to nab these culprits, most are able to bribe their way out and roam around free in hunt of their next prey. What the police do not understand is that the trauma a girl faces during all this is permanently damaging. So it’s far more beneficial to target the very roots of this flesh business and remove it completely. This would have a very positive impact on society. The number of childhoods saved and futures made can’t be matched.


 As an individual, it’s very hard for us to do something significant to help them. But that doesn’t mean we shouldn’t try. We can help the NGOs to open rehabilitation centres where the victims can go through therapy so that they can go back to living their normal lives. We can also volunteer to teach such girls because education has the power to liberate minds and make a person rise up in society. Last but not the least, ample awareness should be spread about such issues so that more and more people come forward to help.


By-
Pashmina Lakhanpal

Female Foeticide


The sex ratio in India is 940 females per 1000 males according to the 2011 census. Surprisingly, it’s lower than many backward or poverty stricken nations like Pakistan, Bangladesh and Nigeria. This fact highlights how society’s petty views can be more harmful than actual adversaries like poverty and war.


In places like Haryana, Rajasthan and Delhi the sex ratio is worst than other states. This is mainly due to the conservative views existing there. Having a girl child is frowned upon. Even though determining the sex of the child is illegal, people get it done anyhow and if it’s a girl child they get her aborted. Just imagine the cruelty behind this – murdering the girl before she even comes to this world.


By no means are women any less than men in today’s world. No individual has the right to take her life. Our country is progressing and so must our thoughts and opinions. There has been a slight increase in the sex ratio according to the 2011 census as compared to the 2001 census. This can be attributed to rise in education level which helps people break free from outdated ideas and rituals. Female Foeticide is quite low in urban areas though in rural areas it still prevails. Hence people must come together and with the help of NGOs awareness among backward rural areas where such incidents still take place. Small scale doctors offer to determine the sex of the child so as to earn hefty sum of money. Police must crack down on such offenders and punish them.


By-
Pashmina Lakhanpal



Acid Attacks


In the past few years the cases of acid attacks have increased very rapidly. Majority of these attacks are on women by their estranged lovers. They can’t take rejection and seek revenge through such petty, cowardly and gruesome acts. Even if a woman survives this terrible, painful act, she lives a life hiding from the world. Acid attack can even cause third degree burns. Up until now acid was available over the counter, just as water is. After a recent surge in the number of acid attacks, the government made a check on the acid being sold. It’s now compulsory to produce an ID proof before purchasing it.


But that’s not enough. Acid should be licensed just like guns. Also police must be prompt to catch such criminals and take necessary action against them. NGOs must also come forward and help acid attack victims to recover. In most cases the attackers target the face causing it to disfigure completely. This destroys the victim’s dignity and she finds it hard to fit into society like she used to before. It’s extremely important that such women are provided rehabilitation so that using therapy they can have their self confidence back and try to lead a normal life. It really takes a toll on the victim. People like Laxmi, an acid attack victim set an example for others. She was attacked a 32 year old whose advances she refused. After recovering she founded Chhanv Foundation, an NGO which helps other acid attack victims.


Still, life can never be the same for them. So it is better such crimes are stopped beforehand rather than tending to them afterwards. There is still a ray of hope. If everyone comes together they can really get some serious changes done to make the living conditions of this country better.


By-
Pashmina Lakhanpal

Marital Rape


Rape. The word is enough to send shivers down the spine. It’s one of the most gruesome and heinous act of crime. What if a person you trust does it? What if the person you think cares for you does something like this?


I’m not saying marital rape is worse than rape. There’s no comparison. Rape of any kind is a criminal offence and must be punished. Rape puts the person through both physical and mental harassment. This is worsened when the crime is committed by someone who’s supposed to look after you and protect you. Marital rape is unfortunately quite common in India. Worst still, it’s not punishable under the Indian Penal Code. Some men treat their wives as property and not a human being. They force them to have intercourse thinking it’s their right. Such mentality has to be changed to lower the crimes.


Another problem women face is coming out to complain against their husband. Social stigma, lax laws and family pressure are only few of the many factors that stop her from complaining. She decides to just live with it, hoping it’ll stop. But this is just out rightly stupid. A woman has as much of a right to live her life with dignity as a man does. We need to get rid of this sick mentality that the society has come up with. Women need to stand up to their rights and lead a life no different than men. NGOs must come forward to help such women since it’s very tough for her. Also, our laws must be amended – just because that man is the woman’s husband doesn’t make him any less of a criminal. Strict laws should be there which should not have any loop holes so that such lowly people cannot escape.

By-
Pashmina Lakhanpal

Child Labour


Ever been handed a newspaper by a little boy in rags? Ever seen a little girl working as a maid in someone’s home? Ever seen little kids running here and there begging for food and money? For most of us the answer would be yes, yes and yes. And how many of these people have actually done something to help them get out of this forced labour? Hardly anyone.


Humans have a tendency to feel pain when they see their loved ones in pain. Well they have another tendency, to turn a blind eye towards people we don’t know who are in trouble. This is exactly the case. Child labour is all around us in every form – may it be begging or working as maids or working at construction sites. But what do we do to stop it? In the years of play and study poor children are forced to earn bread for their family, most of the times risking their life for it. Then there’s the utterly disgusting flesh trade which goes on, in which young girls are sold to dealers and forced into prostitution.


Such heinous crimes must be stopped. Childhood is playing, studying, enjoying and learning new things! By taking a child’s right to his childhood, one has already taken away his life.

So how to bring a stop to this social evil?

First, we must speak up when we see some wrong taking place. It’s easier to stay quiet but it’s honourable if you speak up. One can complain to police about such incidences or take the help of NGO’s to get the children out of this dark business. Also proper arrangements should be made to send these children to school so that they can study and make a better future. Also, strict and stringent laws must be put in place so that the wrong doers fear the law and come on the right track.


  By -
  Pashmina Lakhanpal

Women’s Empowerment


‘Yatra Naryastu Pujyante, Ramante Tatra Devata’. This famous Sanskrit Shlok translates to ‘Where ever a woman is respected, honoured, God will reside there’. Sadly, this is no more true in present India. It’s shameful that women in India face such atrocities even though we have such a rich and ethical culture. It’s time women all over are given the same dignity and respect they once had. Rather than further going on about the problem which everyone is already aware of, lets for a change look at some probable solutions to help bring a difference.



I believe the first and foremost step towards empowering women is education – not only to females, but males as well. This is because education is the light that chases away the darkness of a narrow minded human. Thus it’s not enough to only educate the female, but male as well and to instil in them from a young age about gender equality and moral values. As a result of this, society as a whole forms contemporary opinions and becomes ethically strong.


Another step that might bring some changes is to generate as many jobs as possible for women. Having a job gives them a sense of independence and boosts their confidence. They learn to deal with the outside world and to stand for their ideas and opinions. Instead of getting involved in dirty politics based on comments and false promises, the government should start working hand in hand and bring about a change in this society deemed unfit for women.


By-
Pashmina Lakhanpal