ever thought of how difficult it is to be
a women in this society? All our life we are being told everyone is equal and
so does the constitution says, irrespective of the gender. But how far it has
been practiced in personal lives? If we go around and ask
people, most of them will claim that they treat their son and daughter in an
equal manner. But do they really? If they are considered equal then why sons
are allowed to do late night parties and daughters are not? Why daughters are
expected to learn household works along with education and sons are not? Why
there is a constant pressure on daughters after a certain age to get married
while sons are allowed to give their career first priority, no matter how long
it takes? These inequalities might not be intentional but these are taking
place at a wide scale. It’s not our parents fault only but the whole so
called societal norms or mentality set up is at fault. Whenever a women's rape
case takes place, why her character is being questioned first? How wearing
short clothes does justifies rape? Why are women being asked to wear
appropriate clothes rather than people teaching their son to learn some
respect for women? Why women are made to feel shameful when on periods?
Why is it treated like a disease when it’s just another natural biological
function! Barring a woman to enter in a temple when on periods is something
unacceptable. Why a woman is pressurized to have children just after
marriage? Ever realized she might not be ready yet? Or she might had some other
things scheduled first? Why a woman is expected to obey her husband no matter
what he says? Are women slaves? Being a woman is not less than being
a superhero. A woman is fighting and struggling on every day basis and still
not complaining. Even after all of this women are considered weak?
The society needs to change its norms and to bring such a big change, one needs to start first from its own family. Give your daughters power to make decisions for her life, encourage her to do whatever she feels like doing and give her equal freedom as you give to your sons.
The society needs to change its norms and to bring such a big change, one needs to start first from its own family. Give your daughters power to make decisions for her life, encourage her to do whatever she feels like doing and give her equal freedom as you give to your sons.
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